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How Introverts Can Make Friends!

Making friends is hard as you get older…even more so if you’re an introvert. It’s just so much work. Who asks who to hang out? Will she think I’m a lesbian who’s hitting on her? I just want to drink wine with someone…

We tend to overthink EVERYTHING. With so many thoughts going through our mind and all of the worst case scenarios coming up first, our natural instinct is to retreat. We don’t talk to people who we think look fun and interesting. How will we ever make friends?

In comes bumble BFF. This is the one and only time I’ll say “thank god I’m single! I would have never found this app” ๐Ÿ˜’๐Ÿ˜’๐Ÿ˜’๐Ÿ˜’

If you aren’t fimiliar with Bumble, it’s a dating app that happens to have a friend or BFF section within. When you set up your profile with Bumble you will have a chance to write a little about yourself.

THIS IS YOUR TIME.

Do not hold back, do not hesitate, do not skip this very important step….

Write the following:

“I am in introvert”

Or something along those lines! Tell people right away who you are! You have no idea how excited I get when I come across a profile that says the person who is an introvert. YASSSS WE DONT HAVE TO GO IN PUBLIC TO HANG OUT. You will attract friends simply from including introvert in your description.

And now your fear is setting in…

But what if people don’t like me? I saw a girl that looked so fun but we weren’t a match…

You’ll never know if someone doesn’t swipe right on you (match with you) because they could not be using the app anymore! You’ll only match with people who genuinely want to be your friend and swipe right on you.

Once you match with a friend, start a conversation! Have the introvert conversation as an ice breaker. Share stories, laugh and plan to meet. When you meet in person it will be like you’ve known them forever!

Has anyone used Bumble BFF? Do you love it as much as me? Drop your answers in the comments below!

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Coming up with a business name is harder than you think.

Trying to determine a name for your new business is like trying to get out of bed when you’re exhausted…it’s impossible.

I was sitting there staring at a blank piece of paper waiting for words to appear and have magic take over. Nothing happened.

Like the genius that I am, I knew what I needed to do. Go shopping. I left the house and eased my mind of the pressure by pampering myself with trying on all the latest fall fashion. Would you believe it actually helped?

Sometimes when we are under pressure we simply shut down. Our mind slows and the creativity goes out the window. It wasn’t until I left the house that my mind starting flooding with ideas again.

FIND YO’ NICHE! That’s what everyone tells you but sometimes the hardest things to figure out are within. That’s when I stepped back and said girlfriend you have to write down characteristics about yourself to find your niche.

First thing on my list was in big bold letters.

INTROVERT.

And with that my list was done. I couldn’t find anything more rewarding than helping other people just like me.

I’ve created a quick Q&A for you below because I’m home alone (naturally) and entertaining myself by talking to myself.

Q: If you are an introvert, how could you help another introvert?
A: Introverts feel most comfortable with another introvert. We just vibe. Taking my wealth of knowledge and giving it to someone who I know is listening and open to change is the best of both worlds. Together, we will come up with the best plan for you in a friendly and relaxing atmosphere.

Q: What services will you offer?
A: 1 on 1 coaching will be one of my main services to start with. A monthly success package with everything you need to succeed in your goals will be my next service. Many more to come after that!

Q: Will you do any in person coaching?
A: YES! I will be doing in coaching meet-ups for anyone in the NH/MA area.

Q: What will I get out of coaching? Why is it for me?
A: Feeling empowered is one of the best gifts someone can give you. It awakens your soul, your mind, your body and plans for your future. A coaching session will give you a guide and ideas to plan out an outcome that is achievable for you. You will have a listening ear to your struggles, understanding how to cope with the struggle, planning out a resolution and working towards the end result.

Want to join a community of introvert girls just like you? I have created a facebook group called Introverted Girl Boss and will be posting tons of content there. Make sure to join the group!